Saturday, April 18, 2009

Day at the Beach





















Today I spent a couple of hours reading by the beach. It was a really nice day, very sunny, the wind just slightly cool. Would have been perfect if Dan was with me. This is Buckroe Beach in Hampton . . . that's not the Atlantic but the Chesapeake Bay (which to me is really just a part of the Atlantic so I think it's silly to make a distinction but oh well). Nice beach except the bay has lots of jellyfish- this was where Dan got stung by a jellyfish last year. So I was content to read my book and let the jellies do the swimming.

Monday, April 13, 2009















Dan at the Panama Canal. I got to talk to him on the phone too!!

Friday, April 3, 2009

Deployment Thoughts

I'll just give everyone a quick update on what Dan and I have been up to in the last couple of weeks leading up to Dan leaving on deployment today. I finished my training in Cincinnati on the 20th, and Dan and I drove back to Virginia that day, getting in around 2 am. Then that Saturday (the 22nd) we flew out to Colorado, where we visited family and took some fun drives in the mountains. On the following Thursday we then flew out to Washington, where Dan was part of the wedding of a friend. On the return trip to Virginia this past Monday we also took Liesl, Dan's German Shepard. It was a bit a nightmare trying to fly with her, but the Lord was gracious and we all arrived in one piece, except Liesl was very poopy and needed to be hosed down in the back yard once we got home :). She's doing pretty well, all things considered, but she is very vocal about voicing her disapproval of being left in the backyard when I have to go to work. I reported in to Langely AFB this Wednesday, and started the process of getting all my paperwork done.
So on top of this we had to get Dan ready to deploy as well. On Tuesday, we went to the USS Carr family readiness meeting where I found out the proposed port stops in Latin American during Dan's six month deployment. Lord willing, I hope to visit him at least once in one of those ports. Last night was the hardest for me as it really hit that he would be leaving the next day. Today on the pier I was doing okay, making silly faces at him as he manned the rails, until the ship began to pull out and that's when the tears started. It was an interesting experience, I stood there and cried as my husband left and other Navy wives and families cried aroud me- both a very personal and communal grief. Please pray that Dan would be able to get enough sleep and a little free time, and that I would keep active and content, and that the Lord would comfort both of us.

Deployment Begins


Today Dan left on deployment. Before I write about that, I'll give a quick update on all we've been doing. I finished my training in Cincinnati on March 20, and we drove back to Virginia and then visited family out in Colorado and Washington (where Dan was part of the wedding party of one of his college friends). On the way back to Colorado we also took along our German shepard, Liesl. And last but not least, I reported in to Langely AFB on Wednesday to beging my job as a nurse working in the base's urgent care clinic. My supervisor was more than happy, however, to give me today (Friday) off so I could be there when Dan left.
This past week has been crazy trying to get him ready to go (buying supplies, doing last minute legal documents). We've had some moments where the stress and sadness got to us and we were rather short with each other. Those moments, thankfully, quickly passed and we were able to enjoy our last moments together as much as possible. Today on the pier I was doing pretty good, making silly faces at him as he manned the rails, until the ship actually started to move and that was when I really broke out in tears. It was an interesting experience, as I cried and other wives and family cried around me, both a very personal and a communal grief.
This will be Dan's first deployment, and I've never felt so much like a Navy wife. I've got a wonderful church family, a job to keep me busy, and two pets (Liesl and Cookie) to keep me company; however, I will have to make a conscious effort not to let sadness and isolation wear me down. Please keep Dan and I in your prayers, especially Dan that he will actually get a little sleep and freetime once in a while.